August 16th, 2008 Posted in Cindy | 1 Comment »
I’m taking a moment to post a note about Michael. Michael is now 5 years old, but is wise beyond his years. Men and boys of every age should take note.
A few months ago Michael started to pay compliments. One day I came downstairs after taking my shower, and Michael came up to me and said “Mother, you smell wonderful!!” He was very sincere with his little face smiling at me. Makes a mothers heart warm right up. The next day, I went to get my hair cut. I don’t get my haircut very often, and normally when I get home, I don’t get much of a response unless I ask someone for it. On this day, I came home and as soon as I walked in Michael came up to me and exclaimed, “Mother, your beautiful!!” This earned my son, BIG hugs, and a hearty “Thank you, Michael!”
Compliments became a normal part of Michael’s day. He not only regularly complimented me, but I noticed that his Aunt Pam and his sisters recieved compliments as well. I thought to myself, “Wow, Micheal will have no problems getting the girls.” I also thought that Michael could teach my older boys a thing or two. I mentioned this to my oldest son (Jeff) and he told me that he was not going to follow Michael. I told him I didn’t think that was too smart. He told me that he already told his track friends that Michael was a player and a babe magnet. So maybe Jeff wasn’t too dumb after all.
Last week I was sick. I woke up, feeling horrible. I got up, called my work to let them know that I wouldn’t be in, and then went back to bed. Michael came in and asked me if I was going to work. I told him I was not feeling well and that I would be staying in bed. He left quietly. A few hours later, he came back to ask if I was feeling well. I told him that I was still feeling terrible. He told me that maybe I should drink some water. I told his I would get some water later. He left the room. About 30 later, he came back in carrying a plastic cup filled with water. It wasn’t just warm tap water. No, he went into the fridge and made sure I had cold water. The water didn’t make me feel better, but the thought sure did. As soon as I took a drink, he was ready to take my cup. I told him not to worry about the cup, that I would save the rest of the water. A few hours later, Michael came back into my room and told me that I should have something to eat. Since I was feeling a little better, I asked him to go tell his sister (Sarah) to make me toast. He left and came back a few minutes later. “Mom, do you want one piece or two?” I said, “Two.” He left and came back. “What do you want on your toast?” I said, “Butter.” He left and came back. “There is no butter.” “Tell Sarah to use stick butter.” Out he goes, and a few minutes later, in comes my youngest daughter (Emma) carrying my toast. She said, “Michael thought you would like to see Sarah or me.” So I ate my toast and went back to sleep. When I woke up, Michael came in again to ask how I was feeling. I told him I was feeling much better. He told me he was going downstairs to turn on the TV and put on the Olympics for me, so that I could come downstairs. I told him I would be down a little later. After about 30 minutes, I got the energy to go downstairs and see what every was up to. I walked into the living room and there was Michael sitting on the couch waiting for me with a previously recorded showing of the Olympics running on the TV.
Now doesn’t that story just make you want to want to coo “OHHHHHH!!”? You may also be wondering what this has to do with Car Salesmen. Well, his compliments are still wonderful. I get a daily statement of “Mother, I hope your first call is wonderful.” At first his compliments were heartfelt, and most of them still are, but just recently I feel they are taking a more calculated turn. Micheal’s Aunt Pam came in the house and I heard Michael say “Hellllo Beautiful.” I heard that and thought, well, he’ll get the girl and sell a lot of cars. Of course, I can always hope that maybe he’ll be a doctor with a wonderful beside manner and a great girl.